A mother treats her son as a child only though he grows up by age and also holds a super post in his Company. Everytime when she advises him , he says mama I am grown up and I know these things. But still she advises him even if he shouts her.
She has no patience for somethings. For others he might be a Director, but for her he is always a kid. She knows that he has grown up and will take care of himself but still she does not leave him. Till he is married he also listens to what all his mother says and knows that his success is due to her only. But after marriage he does not know whom to listen whether to his wife or to his mother.
So mothers should not disturb them in their married life. They are lucky if they get a good daughter in law who respects her and takes her mother in law's advise in everything. The mother also feels happy and does anything for her son and daughter in law.
True care will never be recognised easily. Those who are cared never value it at many times, but they will definitely understand it when they start missing it.
She has no patience for somethings. For others he might be a Director, but for her he is always a kid. She knows that he has grown up and will take care of himself but still she does not leave him. Till he is married he also listens to what all his mother says and knows that his success is due to her only. But after marriage he does not know whom to listen whether to his wife or to his mother.
So mothers should not disturb them in their married life. They are lucky if they get a good daughter in law who respects her and takes her mother in law's advise in everything. The mother also feels happy and does anything for her son and daughter in law.
True care will never be recognised easily. Those who are cared never value it at many times, but they will definitely understand it when they start missing it.
Viji ma,
ReplyDeletevery true - oruku arasan na yeruthandalum thaiku avan oru magan than. what ever pattern of life we may follow a mother is a mother and nobody can or take a mother's place.Nice write up keep writing
Dear Nitya
ReplyDeleteThank you for your loving fb. You are right noone can take a mother's place
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There will sure be a love between mother and son. sometimes the sons are very busy not able to show their affection- that is true, especially after marriage.
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very true. nice write up.
ReplyDeleteNice write up, viji mami.
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ReplyDeleteThanks for your valuable comment
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Satchi dear glad you liked the post
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Dear Mira
ReplyDeleteHow are you. Glad to see you here and to know you liked the blog
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Wishing you all the very best for your blogs Viji...
ReplyDeleteShail dear thank you so much for your comment. I had notcome here since so long thinking there wont be any comment. How are you? Glad to see you here
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